The most important qualities in a future spouse for me are:
- Sincerity and openness;
- Respect for family and parents;
- Ability to listen and understand another person;
- Romantic nature within permissible limits;
- Purity of intentions and actions;
The most important thing in family life is:
- Mutual respect and love for the sake of the Almighty;
- Harmony and mutual understanding;
- Trust and sincerity;
- Support in both spiritual and worldly development;
- Shared perspectives on important values;
- Respect for traditions and family;
- Joint pursuit of righteousness;
- Regular emotional and spiritual closeness;
- Noble treatment of each other;
I absolutely cannot tolerate the following in people:
- Excessive quick temper;
- Rudeness in communication;
- Haughtiness;
- Insincerity and deceit.
I would choose the following countries to live in:
- Saudi Arabia;
- Turkey;
- Oman;
- Russia.
I would not choose the following countries to live in:
- Jordan;
- Pakistan;
- Iraq;
- Lebanon;
- Afghanistan;
- France;
- Germany;
- India;
- China.
My leisure time preferences are:
- Family walks and picnics together;
- Solitude for prayer and reading the Quran;
- Gathering with friends in a halal environment;
- Cooking meals for family and loved ones;
- Engaging in sports or physical activity.
My favorite music styles are:
- Classical Eastern music;
- Calm tunes without lyrics;
- Traditional folk music (without prohibited elements);
- Turkish folk music;
- Soft, relaxing melodies.
The best evening at home for me is:
- Cooking a tasty homemade dinner for the family;
- Going to a family café with a halal menu;
- A shared walk and shopping for necessary items;
- Social media communication with relatives or friends;
- Going to the gym or stadium;
- Reading spiritual literature;
- Taking a walk in the fresh air;
- A small gathering at home with friends;
- Inviting loved ones over for tea and conversation;
- Praying together and strengthening spiritual connection.
The ideal meeting (date) for me is:
- Dinner at a halal restaurant;
- A warm evening with the family;
- A walk along the waterfront or in a park;
- A small celebration with close friends;
- Tasting non-alcoholic drinks and sweets;
- Fishing or going outdoors together;
- Cooking a special dinner together;
- Shopping together for the future home;
- Discussing plans for marriage and the future.
In case of a conflict with a loved one, I:
- I openly express my feelings, trying not to offend;
- I isolate myself to turn to the Almighty in supplication;
- I remind myself that anger comes from Shaytan and try to calm down;
- I remain silent for a while so as not to say something I’ll regret;
- I identify the cause of the conflict through constructive dialogue;
- I prefer to give in to keep the peace;
- I try to understand my spouse’s point of view;
- I look for compromise and mutual forgiveness;
- I realize that a properly resolved conflict can strengthen the family;
- I try to avoid arguments, remembering the importance of peace at home.
A preferred gift from someone close to me is:
- Simply attention and presence (without a material gift).
How I feel about maintaining contact with my spouse’s parents:
- Very important, because honoring parents is a Muslim’s duty;
- Absolutely important; we are one big family;
- I happily keep in regular contact and offer help.
In my opinion, the main problem in a family is:
- Forgetting shared family goals and values;
- Excessive sensitivity and stubbornness;
- Unwillingness to communicate with the spouse’s family;
- Selfishness and indifference to the partner’s needs;
- Lack of freedom to make decisions within permissible limits;
- Showing interest in other people of the opposite sex;
- Insecurity and constant need for approval.
Ideal marital relations for me are:
- When spouses are reliable helpers and friends to each other;
- Emotional and spiritual closeness;
- Raising children together in the spirit of Islam;
- Mutual understanding and support in all areas;
- Making decisions in compliance with Sharia;
- Being open and caring toward each other;
- Submitting to the will of the Almighty and avoiding the forbidden.
Personal space in family life means:
- Opportunity to do your favorite activities without harming family life.
Honesty in relationships is:
- Always tell the truth, but do so gently;
- Point out your spouse’s mistakes with a sincere desire to help;
- Discuss problems at an appropriate time and place, keeping respect intact;
- First figure out your own emotions, then express them;
- Be yourself and respect the other person’s individuality.